What is a Man and how do I become one?

First off, let me say that no, I do not think I am currently a man. Right now, there is way too much boy in me for me to rightfully lay claim to that term. However, I have seen men and know men, One in particular, to realize that I not only desire but I must become one. And I hope and pray that I am clearly heading in the right direction, and that someday very soon God will make me a man. When expressing his own lack of faith to a Moravian, John Wesley was told, "Preach faith till you have it; and then because you have it, you will preach faith." So that is what I will endeavor to do. I will preach manhood until I have it. Stay posted...